I am now on my second marriage and a good bit older than you so I might be seeing things a bit differently but, for what it's worth, I think marriages only truly work if both partners are honestly happy and fulfilled in the marriage - and I mean honestly and I mean both. Much love to you and your future. Just friends with benefits not true love. Men who love men should be with other men. I understand about the difficulty of coping on one's own. She lied to herself for years, lied to me for years, and she put me through emotional hell.
If you were having a passionate affair with a woman, the situation would present similar problems. My self-esteem was very low. Things are much better now, I still get flash backs when I get yelled at, but now sometime I do the yelling to, but mostly we are very happy. She thinks I am abandoning her and that adds more guilt. He said it answered a lot of questions.
I started having counselling and it was then that I finally faced up to who I was — what I was. Not Helpful 1 Helpful It sounds as if she finds it impossible to address this issue seriously, which is why you feel so lonely. Having no idea of the reality, I secretly thought it might be quite exciting to have divorced parents.
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