Real women don't want flowers and chocolate. I have a website where handouts from workshops I give are available free of charge under "Downloadable Documents". You have both messed up and have abused and trampled on a precious thing called marriage. It's is a form of recreational sex between consenting adults, usually between two heterosexual couples or between a couple and a single female or male. During those first 10 years we were "swingers" and participated in foursomes with other couples. It amazes me how people think that this is an expression of love?? With time, patience, love, practice, good communication and yes, forgiveness, many succeed and learn to thrive within an abundance of love and joy not based on exclusivity and possessiveness.
Swinging Didn’t Ruin My Marriage—It Made the Sex Hotter
At least as much access as we could handle. Yes Ms Fitness, speaking with a therapist is a great plan. Slowly we have re-built our sex life. My hubby and I did not join but were aware of the meetings and escapades.
If your situation warrants it, please seek competent professional counsel. My wife karen was raised as a minister daughter and lead a very protected life when we got married she was always finding faults with her body i got her into showing off by taking her to semi private fishing spots were she would sit toples every time some luck fisherman would happen upon us she would get a thrill of being caught this opened her up to more and more we have had a few experiences swinging because of it and now after 29 years of being married i can say that swinging has save our marriage today at 50 karen knows she is a very sexy woman our sex life is great we act like we are still dating. God holds all authority. I have been happily non-monogamous for the past 18 years.
I would assume no only because it is still a closet lifestyle for obvious reasons. He lives in a 5th wheel at a nudist resort. They are allowed to have their bodies explored Replies to my comment. And let her friends know what you are doing. Originally Posted by morituri View Post.