In other words, if she has to get drunk in order to have sex with you, I think it's really damaging to her psychologically to keep having her do that so I would urge you to not ask her to do that anymore, and if she's starting to prepare herself by getting drunk again, out of habit, tell her she doesn't have to do that anymore, give her the freedom to not do it anymore and without repercussions from you i. Rather I'd help her to find different ways where she may be able to enjoy herself and that would be far better than you feeling as though she's doing it out of duty. I would understand more of where she is coming from with this, had she been a virgin when we first met, but she hadn't. Lucky the sheep rescued after four-day cliff ordeal Watch: This is for three reasons. Yes, this is going to be a column about women changing their name after they get married Tric Kearney:
Wife wont have sex unless drunk. Why does my girlfriend need to drink before we have sex?.
Moreover, make sure its not all about you. That said, please use caution in the way these things are pursued. Song of Solomon is the place to start. And they are all really fixable! Sex was fun, spontaneous, a little dirty at times, very gentle at others.
October 11, at 7: Too graphic for a christian site that seeks to protect young and old. My wife says she is always angry at me for not always listening to her. Look at her—no distractions.
We are all part of the moderation team - please report comments that break the community rules!!! Power of the press: You may feel that she's not doing this for you, but you can't change her and if you don't want to divorce then you don't have many other options for what else you can do. Don't ask her anymore to get drunk so that you can have sex with her because each time she does it, even though she is choosing to do it for you yet she's probably choosing it from a negative place to avoid upsetting you it's probably further damaging her psychologically and further tearing down the relationship between you. I don't believe that she has to get drunk to have sex with me. Sex in Marriage Sexual problems are common in many relationships.